OOTD: My Boyfriend's Back, And He's Gonna Save My Reputation

Ok now we all know I don’t have a boyfriend, that I don’t even like boys in the first place, and that I am madly in love with the very wonderful and very female Night Rider. However, I do love the new “boyfriend inspired” trends as of late,  especially how they translating to plus size fashion! I have been on the hunt for the perfect and affordable boyfriend blazer and boyfriend jeans and am still looking (i’m a perfectionist) but I did get lucky enough to find  the perfect boyfriend cardigan a couple of weeks ago!

Photo by Candace Sweet <--- Follow Her On Facebook!

I found the new love of my life, the wonderful gray boyfriend sweater in the clearance section at you guessed it ASOS Curve and new I had to have it! I was so pleased when I received this cardigan and was amazed at how wonderfully comfortable it is! It is well made, just like everything else at ASOS Curve, and I love the round hem on the back. It is very flattering on the body and can be worn with dresses or with a t-shirt and jeans. I like it best with the sleeves pushed up so it doesn’t look to slouchy, and I absolutely that it has buttons all the way up to the top of the neckline. For the shoot outside Lucy’s Coffee Shop in Boise I wore the boyfriend cardi with my favorite little black dress from Torrid. This dress fits the body perfectly and accentuated the curves with a  fitted v-neck bodice and a tulip skirt. I added my Torrid Heart Shaped Corset Belt to give the look a little bit more dimension and my black Torrid leggings and black, gray and white plaid peeptoe heels that I also picked up a couple of years ago from you guessed it again Torrid as well. I accessorized with my new favorite bracelet from designer Amy Radue and left the look simple. It would be great for running weekend errands or grabbing a cup of coffee or lunch with friends!

Xoxo
Stiletto

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OOTD: Signature Power Plus

Okay, well... Oh happy day! Each day I grow closer to the end of this drama and this mess. What is really crazy, I feel stronger the closer that last day gets. Today I am feeling EXTRA strong and beautiful. It may have something to do with me rocking my favorite combination Purple and Red. If you've been reading for a while, you know that RED is my power color and PURPLE is my signature color. So I went all matchy matchy by making all the accessories and makeup come together with those two colors. It was a last minute decision, but I'm glad I made it. If you think that I have on too much of the color, let me know. I do want honest feedback because as I grow in this site and in my fashion. I want you to be able to see my progress!

Again, I have to get sappy on you all and say that all the support and love I get here is so overwhelming sometimes and I do find myself crying after some of your comments because you truly and honestly make my day. You're all AWESOME!

Outfit Breakdown:

TOP: Wal-Mart

DRESS: Marshall's

FLATS: Payless

BELT: Torrid

NECKLACE: Burlington Coat Factory

BRACELET: Dots

EARRINGS: Icing

RING: Torrid

EYESHADOWS:
Red=NYX (Red Head);
Purple=Sephora Ultimate Palette 4th purple down (see picture)

Don't forget to check out my blog "Diva in Deep Thought" (click here)

~besitos~

OOTD: Hold Me Closer Tiny Dancer

Had another great shoot this weekend with Candace Sweet and got some really great shots of some fabulous outfits! You can look forward to 5 outfit posts this week and a couple of reviews!

Today I am reviewing the Jamie In Pink from Size Appeal

Photos By Candace Sweet <----Follow Her On Facebook!

This is probably the most sassy dress I have received and it was such a blast to wear! I got this dress in a size 3x for my size 22 US body and it fits great, very true to size. They coloring on the pink top is fabulous and I love the way it is dressed up and taking it to a whole new level with the mesh skirt. The skirt has a great tutu feel and is totally fun and definitely the kind of rock n roll dress I go crazy for! The back and bust also has an amazing detail and gives it a superb femininity. This dress also comes with removable chains which give it even more style.

My only complaint on this dress is it is a bit short but it is totally fixable by pairing it with a simple black legging like I did here with my black laced ankle leggings from Torrid. This dress is also spaghetti strap and since I am more comfortable a bit more covered up I paired it with my black thrifted tee. I also loved adding my Yours Clothing black bomber jacket to this look and was feeling like a total punk rock princess in this awesome dress! I didn’t want this look to take a “working girl” turn so instead of wearing a heel I decide to showcase it in a black ballet flat. Between the mesh skirt and the great flatties I felt like a dancer and a very fashionable one at that!

Size Appeal has some amazing clothes and their site even sorts dresses for you into categories like Casual, Club, Maxi and Trendy, which is pretty cool so you can find pieces that fit your personal style! This dress came from the trendy section and it is definitely that!  The people at Size Appeal are also so awesome and easy to work with. They pride themselves in having great pieces that fit true to size and their shipping is super fast and free for orders $50 or more! You can also join Size Appeal’s mailing list and get 15% off your first order! Make sure you check them out and follow them on Facebook and Twitter and tell um Stiletto sent ya!

Xoxo
Stiletto

OOTD: It's A Lovely Thing, The Animal Instinct

I featured this dress a couple of weeks ago as a DWD because I was so excited about ordering it! I love a great animal print dress and Torrid never lets me down when it comes to these type of pieces!

Photos by Candace Sweet <---- Follow her on Facebook!

I couldn’t be happier with this dress, it fits like it was made for me and even though it has a plunging neckline it has extra fabric on the bust that keeps it down on your breasts just showing the perfect amount of cleavage. This dress is cotton and super comfortable and has a diamond hem that gives it some extra dimension as well as a fitted waist and side ties that make it fit any body perfectly!

I love the way this dress fits, looks and feels. It is seriously so comfortable but so edgy and trendy as well! I wore this dress with simple black leggings also from Torrid (it’s still a bit chilly out) but could easily wear it with bare legs for summer too. I paired it with my black canvas wedges from Payless. When I wore this to the office I added on the black cardi from Torrid as well.  The bracelet I am wearing is from designer Amy Radue and is on of my new favorite accessories!

Candace and I had a great time shooting this fun outfit with a great pin-up vibe outside Ink Vision Tatoo in Boise!

I feel so good in this dress and I think it shows!  What do you think, am I rocking the cheetah print or what?
Xoxo
Stiletto

Summer Trends: The White Dress

Keep yourself cool this summer with a chic white dress. The thing I love the most about this trend is you can definitely mix it up! It's as easy as adding a colorful accessory, a short sleeved cardigan, flip flops, or whatever you want! Or simply just wear it by itself. It's a no-brainer. Don't you just love easy fashion?

My golden rule: Don't mix up different shades of white, keep it simple.

1. Asos Curve Jersey Maxi Vest Dress
2. Torrid White Swiss Dot Rosette Hem Dress
3. Macy's London Times Puff Sleeve Eyelet Button Front
4. Nordstrom Donna Ricco Notch Front Dress
5. Asos Curve Lace Bow Bandeau Dress
6. Macy's Calvin Klein Banded Waist Shirt Dress
7. B&Lu Keisha Dress
8. Carmakoma Mitte Dress
9. Asos Curve Frill Hem Midi Dress
10. Alloy Kristen Kimono-Sleeve Dress

OOTD: Jump! Jump!

For as long as I can remember, "the rules of fashion" for the full figured woman have always been way more extensive and debilitating, than "the rules of fashion" set forth for the "average-sized" woman. Elements such as horizontal stripes, bold prints and tapered jeans were deemed an absolute "NO NO" in our realms, and going against such restrictions were a surefire way to land yourself on a worst dressed list and/or reap the silent - and sometimes not so silent - ridicule of the anonymous passerby...EEK!

But with plus sized fashion rapidly evolving, the rules aren't just changing, they are EVAPORATING! And with the plus sized customer becoming ever more fashion savvy and conscious, retailers are now scrambling to provide new and innovative fashion for this consumer...even if that means breaking some of their...eh hemmm...previously implemented rules....

While the jumpsuit is certainly no stranger to fashion (think 1980's, David Bowie, mechanics, and prisoners across the United States....HA!), it - and it's sweet little play cousin, "the romper" - is certainly a breath of fresh air for the full figured fashion femme fatale. And now with options for day play or an evening out, this trend might be just the addition your closet needs! Last week, I had an event to attend and decided to take my latest gem of a jumpsuit find out for a spin! Not only was it SUPER comfortable but, I can't even begin to tell you how much praise and how many compliments I received on this "gutsy" (direct quote) look...

Icon Collection woven zip-front jumpsuit, $99.99 available at Lane Bryant.com

Icon Collection Ponte Boyfriend Blazer, Lane Bryant

Black Pinched Clutch Bag, Target

Dolce Vita Leather Platform Pumps, Love My Shoes

Gold Wire Hoop Earrings, Mary Wormworth for Mary's Hands Jewelry

 

Now, while I know that this trend is not for everyone...DON'T RULE IT OUT JUST YET!! The key to finding the right jumpsuit/romper for your body type is all about definition, length, fit, and fabric. Take into consideration how the item is draped and how/where the closure will fall. Also, be conscious of your own proportions. Ladies, be careful of drop waist styles, as these can oftentimes come off boxy and unflattering on curvy body types. With that said, here are a few of my favorite jumpsuit/romper finds...

(Button Front Sleeveless Romper, $29.99 available at LaneBryant.com; Sleeveless Belted Jumpsuit, $89.50 available at Lane Bryant.com)

(Women's Plus Tie-Waist Jumpsuits, $42.50 available at Old Navy.com; Black Paisley Playsuit, £16.00 (Approx. $24.75) available at Dorothy Perkins.com)

(Women's Plus Ruffled Romper Cover-Ups, $19.50 available at Old Navy.com; New Black Silver Button Short Jumper, $27.99 available at Jens Fashion Plus)

As far as styling is concerned, jumpsuits/rompers look fantastic with flat gladiator sandals during the daytime and stunning with heels in the evening. If you opt for a solid style, play up the look with great acessories and basic outerwear like blazers, denim, and even motorcycle style jackets. And if you choose to go with a style that incorporates a bold print or stripe, keep it more on the simple side so that all of the focus is on your flawless fashion sense. Rule of thumb across the board: Too many elements can be DISTRACTING, so always be sure to streamline.

Until Next time F5's and Skorch Dolls...
Stay D'lish

P.S. I couldn't resist...this song reminds me of my childhood. Romping around outside all day, family bbq's, and firecracker popsicles. If only life could be that simple again =)

OOTD: It's That Time Of The Year Again... SUMMERTIME!

Well let me start off by saying THANK YOU to Torrid for adding this fierce swimsuit into the collection, this is my first one EVER & I feel very beautiful!

HAT: $6.99 Burlington Coat Factory
SWIMSUIT: $68 Torrid
SHORTS: $34
SHOES:  $39.99

Full Figured Women Catching The Eye Of Readers, But May Lower Self Esteem?

A recent study by Arizona State University, the University of Cologne and Erasmus University shows that the result of using full-figured models in magazines has been mixed. It seems that the appearance of full-figured models on the covers of well-distributed magazines has an adverse affect on consumers. The self-esteem of some women actually dropped after having seen plus-size models on magazine covers like V and the new Vogue Curvy.

The study declared the presence of full-figured models as having a negative impact on sales, influenced by that drop in self esteem. One model referenced in the study is 5’9”, with measurements of 38”, 36”, 46”. The swimsuit she wore was 18W (which fits true to size and accommodates up to a size D cup). Although the findings are, for the most part, unsubstantiated, it proves that the new full-figured fad has obstacles it must overcome if it is to flourish.


Many Americans are tired of seeing wafer-thin models grace the covers of major periodicals, but magazine editors are reluctant to put real women on those covers. Conversely, our full figured models on SwimsuitsForAll.com have generated heaps of praise from customers.


It remains to be seen whether plus sized models on magazines are a passing fad, but all indicators seem to show such magazines continue to sell well—good news for full figured women nationwide who have had to deal with unrealistic expectations for years, and good news for fashion aficionados who enjoy seeing real women display the newest styles and bring the idea of “sexy” back to fuller models of the 50’s and early 60’s.

Do you think full-figured models are here to stay, or will they quickly be replaced by more wafer-thin models?

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OOTD: Indie Rock Used To Be My Dirty Pop. Could You Be My Everything?

Last week I recieved a great dress to review from B&LU

Photos by Candace Sweet <--- Follow Her On Facebook!

I was absolutely thrilled when I received one of B&LU’s new Spring dresses in the mail. I had my eye on the Brietta Dress and I was so excited when I opened my review package and it was inside! The Brietta Dress is a sleeveless, two tone dress consisting of a heathered cream bodice and a denim-looking, black chino skirt. The black crotchet detail on the bodice plays agains the denim-looking skirt and gives it a flirty feminine flair that is great for the season.  The heathered cream bodice is also made of a nice cotton blend stretch and is very comfortable. The elastic band waist is great on the curves and the length is really fun and a bit sexy with its short above the knee length. This outfit is fairly true to size except for in the hips, there is a bit of a stretch but I found it to be a tiny bit tight. If you are on the larger end of the size spectrum and have bigger hips I would reccommend going up a size in this dress for the most comfort and confidence. This dress shipped quickly and got to me in no time and is of a good quality. It is dry clean only which can be a bit of a task but totally worth it in this special classy dress with edge and flair.

I wore this dress bare legged and with my black wedge peep toes. Candace and I took these photos outside The Record Exchange in downtown Boise and it was a great dress for an indie look outside the record store!

Another note about B&LU is Chris the owner is an absolute sweetheart and so easy to work with. Keep up to date on the happs at B&LU by following them on Twitter and Facebook.

ASOS REVIEW: It's Official, We're An Item

Oh yes, you read correctly. Asos Curve and I, well.. We're an item. It's official! Rofl. I wish. Then I could get all of their stuff for freeeeee :( That's my dream.

Alas no, it is not to be. I did hit their sales though and bought some of their new additions! I still have a couple of bits to get/post but that'll be when I get my money :D



Spots, stripes and skirts - oh my! Oh yes. I bought TWO of these pencil skirts by accident, however I love it so much I'm damn well keeping it! This top is cropped and I can't wear it with much more than a pencil skirt otherwise my belly would show, and I don't want that! The top is comfy and has a pocket (you know I love me some pockets,) and the skirt is comfy too. The skirt has a zip up one side, it's a size 22 and can be a squeeeeeeze to get on, but once it's on it was comfy and fine. I like it enough that I won't send back for a 24. The length is perfect. I have some tights on the way so my pasty legs won't look so bad ;)

OOTD: Tie-dye fly, A Technicolor Wonder

Thanks for hanging in there yesterday while I was sick. Since I didn’t post yesterday I will have an outfit post for Thursday, Friday (which will be a B&LU reviews as well) and another one on Saturday! Hope you enjoy.

Today's outfit post is one of my favorite pieces from my closet. It surprising actually that I have never shown this dress before since I do love it so much, but I guess it just took the right moment to capture it.

Photos by Candace Sweet <---Follow Her On Facebook!

I fell in love with this dress the first time I saw it at the Torrid in Boise last Spring. I purchased it at full price (which I rarely do) because I wanted to wear it for a Cinco De Drinko party Nightrider’s cousin Ali
(BTW today is her birthday so go tell her Happy Birthday!) and I were going to. This dress is really fun  and feels great with the silky material and the side draping and bubble hem make it really flattering on my body. This dress has a very deep neckline so I usually wear a simple cami underneath like I did with this black cami from NY& CO. I normally have been wearing this dress with black leggings but since it was so warm on Sunday when  I did this photos I went for the bare legs and did a few shots in my black Payless canvas wedges then did a few shots in my raspberry cardigan from Torrid and my matching raspberry flatties from Payless as well (they were only $7 but so cute!). Sorry they didn’t make it into any of the shots I chose but you can see them here. Tie-dye is really in this season and I’m really happy it is since I love this dress so much!

Something I would also like to talk a bit about is about loving every part of your body. A few years back I wasn’t very comfortable with myself and my self-proclaimed problem areas. I wore pants all the time because I hated my legs, and thought my thighs were too fat to let be seen by anyone. I know a lot of women have this problem or feel the same way about their arms. I have chosen to show both of these areas in the last photo. Since discovering body acceptance and self-love I now have a full appreciation for my body and don’t hide it from the world anymore. I love my thick thighs, my large but loving arms and wouldn’t change the way I look in this outfit. While I love cardigans, I mostly just wear them when it is cold and when I am in the office but as soon as I step outside into the sunshine I let my arms and legs be seen and I am so thankful that I have found enough happiness and love for myself that I now am comfortable enough doing so.  If you are still hiding your arms or legs from the world I hope this will help you to throw caution to the wind, find some self-love for every part of your beautiful body and let the world see it! I challenge you to go sleeveless as it heats up this Spring and Summer and why not part from the leggings on occassion too!

Xoxo
Stiletto

Mixing It Up!

I don`t know about you, my fellow fashion-lovers, but I don`t normally like to wear the same outfits several days in a row, mixing it up keeps it more fun I think. However, after a shopping spree last week I have found myself wanting to enjoy my new fave accessories several days in a row, so I have had fun wearing them each day, worked with a different mix of dresses and colours.

Here are two of my outfits with my fave grey scarf, pink ring and grey wegdes from this week:

Gray loves color:
Grey booties and scarf mixed with one of my all time fave purple dresses from Monsoon, gray vest, feathered headband and pink ring. Oh and a wee twinkle ;)

Grey goes muted:

Grey scarf and booties mixed with a muted brown dress, black vest, pink ring and my husbonds watch, and a smile :)

Here are the closeups of my lovely treats:

My lovely fringed grey scarf from St.Tropez, birds and all. And my new pink ring from H&M

Grey wegded booties from H&M, with mud :)

Tell me, what are your favorite Spring loving accessories these days?

OOTD: Rockin' Those Harems

It's so hard to wear Harem pants when you are Curvy. I was really thinking about returning them. Then I played around with different looks and came up with this one. I'm also wearing a shaper underneath to slim me out more. Plus Size Girls don't be afraid to rock these gorgeous pants also! With a great wedge heel, it will make your butt look even better!

PANTS: Faith 21- $19.80
SHIRT: Forever 21- $15.80
SHOES: Payless (A long time ago)

Also a VIDEO so you can see them in action

Interview Exclusive: Janet Allen of COQO CLOTHING

Aren't you tired of big, baggy, frumpy plus size clothing that doesn't do anything for your voluptuous figure? As C. Garner said-Where is the structure? I asked my mystery designer this same question.

I know that some of you have been waiting to see who the mystery designer was. Some of you may even be familiar with her line. Janet Allen stumbled into the fashion world after being laid off at her job as a Juvenile Parole Officer and becoming more and more frustrated as a curvy girl with her options for clothing, Janet Allen began making her own garments. These garments were made to flatter her figure, not hide it behind the baggy clothing that is most commonly available for sizes 12 and up. Her clothing hugged her in all the right places and her curvy friends noticed. She then began making garments for them as well. Soon, by word of mouth the line grew popular in her hometown of Boston and is what it is today. After you see her line, you will believe, as I believe, that this THIQ CHIQ is going places. With no further adieu, Janet Allen tells us more about Coqo Clothing.

Q: For all who are not familiar with your line-what is CoQo Clothing?

A: CoQo is a line that challenges all of the limits put on curvy girls – we create fashion forward trends, catered to accentuate the dynamic proportions of the curvy woman. We believe in stylish camouflage, as opposed to the traditional draping and unflattering methods of covering up imperfections.

Q: How did you get started in fashion industry, as in what steps did you take to get your company off the ground? From designing, selling to friends, marketing, fashion shows. How did you do it?

A: Well it started as a completely selfish act – I couldn’t find anything that fit me quite right. I didn’t want to look like I stuffed myself into too-tight clothing, and I refused to look old so I wasn’t going to the retail stores that stretched out misses size clothing in a lame attempt at creating options. I knew what I was working with but couldn’t find the fashion to flaunt it, so I started to make my own club gear and cocktail dresses. My friends (also curvy girls) loved my styles and wanted some of their own, so I started making them custom styles that fit their personalities. In doing so, they had incredible confidence and this drew a ton of attention to the clothing – and from there the requests started to flow. The fashion took off way ahead of the actual business…that came later as I realized I needed a way to manage the flow.

Q: Did you know how to sew or did you learn on your own?

A: I didn't know how to sew believe it or not. I bought the machine and read the directions, and got started. It seems so daunting when you think of it in terms of what it's become, but I approached it as a personal project. I didn't have this business plan in mind, so I wasn't worried about whether I'd catch on or not - there was no pressure. The skill definitely developed over time, and I'm always learning something new.

Q: How does your line get produced?

A: I actually still make everything myself – I’m a bit of a control freak like that. That’s quickly becoming overwhelming though, so I’ve been test-driving seamstresses that could mass produce for me. In the meantime, I treat each order as a custom order request and produce the piece personally especially for my customer.

Q: How did you get your designs from sketch to pattern?

A: Well, at first I didn't have patterns.  I did so much trial and error that I committed the process of constructing a piece of memory.  Since then, I took a class to learn proper technique.

Q: Many plus size women have complained that plus size designers put too much emphasis on using stretchy material in their designs such as jersey knit. Why pay the high cost of a designer outfit when they can get those same designs at retailers such as Dots and Rainbow? They plead for more structured pieces to balance these out. Does your latest collection include structured pieces? If it doesn’t, will you address this issue in your next line?

A: Oh, I completely agree. I create my pieces with the core intention of creating fashion options that look and feel miles above anything you’d find at a Dots or Rainbow. Each piece should make you feel like a superstar. My spring line actually does have many tailored pieces, and honestly even my structured pieces employ some stretch fabric. I think the difference in my pieces, though, is that I choose fabrics that don’t actually look like stretch. For example I have a two piece set made completely of chiffon, that is structured to look like it hugs your body and was made especially for you – but on sight you wouldn’t assume it was stretch. As I meet more customers and get feedback, I challenge myself to meet needs such as this. I’m always open to these types of criticisms and love to hear from my thiQ girls!

Q: What is the size range?

A: That’s actually flexible – since I make everything to order. Generally my customers range from about a size 12 to a size 24. With the new line I intend to sell more inventory as opposed to custom made pieces for the sake of efficiency and fast turnaround for my local and long-distance customers, but if I don’t have something in a requested size I’ll most definitely make it.

Q: What is the average price range?

A: Separates range from $45 - $85, cocktail/party dresses range from $65-$118, denim and jumpers range from $85-$200, and formal dresses range from $100 - $400 depending on the length and complexity, and whether it’s something I have or something that’s custom made – which would of course be on the higher end.

Q: Once you get the seamstress situation solved will the prices go down some? Many of us love your designs but everyone doesn't have the pockets to get them.

A: I battle with my team over this all the time. Most designers come into the game shooting to be high-end exclusive, which I suppose is where the fame is, but I came into this wanting to stick with the population that got me started. It was me and my girls - who by no means were rolling in dough - so yes, once we are able to mass produce and do so economically without sacrificing quality I'd love to bring the price low enough to be accessible to the mainstream.

Q: What current trends have you incorporated into the Summer Line i.e. nautical, sequins, draping, ruffles, rouging, pleating, and one-shoulder.

A: I have jumpers, Grecian draping, tropical-colored maxi dresses (corals, teals, etc.), pencil fitted sheath dresses, and nude dresses and separates.

Q: Any advice for aspiring fashion designers?

A: It seems obvious, but wear your own designs. If you don’t, why would anyone else? Not only did I wear my outfits, my friends did too – and as a group of sexy, chic curvy girls we caught every eye in the room. Be your own biggest fan, and you’ll draw crowds.

Get out and network, especially at fashion events that cater to your demographic. For me, it was Full Figured Fashion Week in New York, partnering with promoters who catered to Boston socialites – folks who actually paid good money for and wore chic party dresses on a regular basis – to do fashion shows as a prelude to a party, and making time to take advantage of any opportunity for exposure.
Join a coalition – BRAG was a great suggestion given to me, actively interacting with bloggers through feedback on their pieces, join a group on facebook and add photos, anything that will give you a platform to expose your pieces.

Q: Who is your favorite designer?

A: I actually love Christian Cota and Donna Karan right now…I love their sexy twists on classic looks. They both celebrate curves, which of course I appreciate.

Q: Have you been asked to work with other designers?

A: No, not yet…but I’m definitely open to it!

Q: Are there any models that you would like to work with?

A: Toccara – I’ve loved her since ANTM.

Q: Any embarrassing moments at a fashion show like wardrobe malfunction?

A: Oh man, definitely. When I first started out I completely underestimated the value of a pre-show fitting. I ended up pinning all of my models into their clothes, and doing that completely wrong, and the poor girls were getting stabbed up and down the runway. They were so mad at me (laughing), but thankfully they were patient and today we can laugh about it!

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REVIEW: Bali Comfort Bra

Bali Comfort-U Back Review

Finding the perfect bra is probably one of our biggest headaches. Especially, if you're a curvy woman with a larger chest.

So, when I was contacted to try Bali's Comfort-U Back bra I was pretty excited. This new line features the beautiful Helena Christensen and boasts about the straps and the back of the bra staying in place. You know I had to try it out.

They sent me the Flower Bali Underwire bra. I actually wore this bra on my birthday and I was quite surprised at how comfortable it was. The straps never fell down and the back of the bra never rode up once, I guess I can thank the wide side straps and U-shape for that.

I wasn't spilling out all over the place either. The only issue I had was the actual shape it gave my breast. I guess it's natural, but I felt like they had a little bit of a cone shape. I would prefer them to have more of a round form.

As you can see in the pics above, the quality of the bra was great. It's a very basic white bra with a simple floral design. They have a lot of different styles if this one isn't for you.

I am big on comfort and affordability when it comes to undergarments. The Comfort-U bras have suggested retail prices of $29 to $36. That sound pretty good to me!!

"We are excited to let women in on the secret to a great bra-it's in the back."-Jennifer Stell, Bali senior marketing manager

Monique
www.CurvesandChaos.com

Too Much OR Too Fat??

Though I am not an avid reader of the New York Post (I mean, come on, now.)

This headline caught my attention this morning:

'Narrow'-minded ABC refuses to air ad with buxom babe, clothing line claims

So, I clicked. I read. I was disappointed and appalled. Why am I surprised? ABC refused to air an ad for Lane Bryant's Cacique lingerie line, deeming the cleavage "too much" for the "family"

When is enough, enough?

No one can argue with me that this is NOT discrimination. Women can parade around in skimpy costumes for DWTS, where they have LESS coverage than the model pictures (see the pic to your right) and perform sexy dances, but an ad with a plus-size woman is not okay due to cleavage? You have GOT to be kidding me - that is the WORST excuse I have ever heard! And FOX, Victoria's Secret ads can be pretty risque...but I guess that's alright as long as you are thin. 

I am disgusted today. How does this make you feel?

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OOTD: Tuggin' On My Zipper, Ain't Got Nothing On Me

I fell in love with this dress the first time I saw it and even featured it as a DWD back in March. The New Red Black Floral Zipper Dress is probably one of my favorite pieces from Jen’s Fashion Plus and I couldn’t wait to get my hands on it!

Photos by Candace Sweet  <--Follow Her On Facebook!

First off I have to tell you that I have already had so many compliments on this fantastic and fierce dress, everyone love its! It is so modern and  trendy and everyone goes ga-ga for the exposed zipper on the sweetheart bust. It is a great combination of edge and romance and is really probably one of the perfect examples of my personal style!  This dress just like the one I mentioned yesterday is true to size so follow the measurements! I really love the fit of this dress though even if it is a bit snug in the tummy the cut camouflaged my belly.  This dress also has pockets! I go nuts for pockets on dress and these are roomy and trendy and appear invisible to everyone but you until you put your hands in them. Jen has really hit the ball out of the park with this dress!

I styled this dress the same way I styled the other tube dress with my thrifted $3 black tee and my Torrid black leggings and payless wedges. I think this dress would also look fab with some textured tights and booties which would really kick it up a notch. This design allows for so many options as far as styling I’m sure any girl could make this look her own!

Make sure you check out everything Jen’s Fashion Plus has to offer and make sure you follow her on Twitter and Facebook (all Facebook friends get free shipping!) and on her blog Passion For Plus Size Fashion and tell her Stiletto sent ya!

Xoxo
Stiletto

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+Review | Lucie Lu Whimsy Bow Tee

Last week I was excited to learn about a new plus size online retailer. As the publisher of Skorch Mag, I'm definitely lucky to be one of the first ones to find out first. The awesome girls at Lucie Lu asked me to try out one of their tops. I admit I do get a lot of clothing to sample, the luxury of the job, but I promise you I would never tell you to wear it unless I felt in my heart you would love it and I was not compensated for this review. So, disclaimers aside, here's the breakdown...

meet my little man Kyle - he's always messing up the shot! :)

             

Review

Fabric: Being 60% poly~32% rayon~8% spandex, it's surprisingly quality feeling. Not too thin.

Details: The detailing is beautiful and the stitching is perfect. One of the first things I will bag on is any loose stitching or sloppy detailing.

Cut/Fit: Perfection! I simply LOVE the puffy sleeve, makes it feel so perfect. The website sizing was spot on.

Color: My photos are not retouched, so the color you see is the color you get. I do think the website image is a bit off on the color. See website image below.

Overall Summary: I absolutely adore the shirt. One thing to remember, always look at the care instructions...being a busy mom I would have normally thrown this piece in the dryer, but it does say to lay flat...makes sense with the detailing. This shows you why I HATE buying sequins! LOL - I don't have the patience for air-dry, but for this top, I'll try :).

Get this top at Lucie Lu
http://www.lucielu.com/product_p/whimsybowtee.htm

$38

Sizes: 1x(14/16) to 5x (30)

PS - Click here to get my cropped pants from Old Navy!
$29.50 Sizes 16-30

xoxo,
jessica
publisher of skorch mag



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OOTD: You Could Be My Flamingo, Cause Pink Is The New Kinda Lingo

Last week I met a great photographer Candace Sweet from Sweet Reflection’s Photography. She and I hit it off right away and decided to form a partnership and she will now be my photographer for all outfit posts. We had our first shoot this weekend and took some shots of some of the new clothes I have received to review and some of my other stuff for some good old outfit posts! We had a fantastic time shooting those outfits and took over 150 frames. So be prepared because from now on you will be seeing a lot more of me and the looks I love, and love to wear!

Today we have the Pink Ruffled Tube Dress from Jen’s Fashion Plus

Photos By Candace Sweet <<
When Jen asked me to pick an item from her store to review I was instantly attracted to this dress, its such a fun color and I love the ruffle detail. Jen’s Fashion Plus items are true to size and this is a size 3x on my typical size 22 frame. Make sure you follow the measurements because I didn’t (SIZE DENIAL!) and as you can see this dress was a bit tight in the tummy on me. I loved the stretch ruffled fabric though and I’m sure with some Spanx this would probably fit better and hide the muffin top a bit, but oh well I love my stomach and I still think I look pretty HAWT!
This dress came with a black ribbon but I felt like rockin it out a bit and used my Torrid heart shaped corset belt instead. I also decided to show a little less skin and paired it with a thrifted black tee I picked up for $3 and my Torrid black laced ankle leggings. I also wore my bomber jacket from Yours Clothing and my Payless black wedges and gave it a retro vibe.
We shot these photos at The West Side Drive In in Boise. It is a classic burger joint and I was instantly drawn to the fun bright colors and art work to go with this dress!
Make sure to check out Jen’s Fashion Plus for great items and new items every Friday and follow her on Facebook, Twitter and on her blog at Passion For Plus Size Fashion. I have another dress from Jen’s Fashion Plus that I will be reviewing later this week, stay tuned!
Xoxo
Stiletto